What are the Best Pick Up Lines?

The best pick up lines are the ones that lead to a great conversation with a woman.

Because you probably approached her in the first place to get to know her better!

Getting your pick up lines right is really important because this is the first impression she’ll get of you.

And remember, most women have heard a lot of different lines from a lot of different men.

Which means that she'll be an expert on the best pick up lines…so no pressure, guys!

But don’t worry we’re here to help!

Think of the classic question “Do you come here often?”

This is one of the best pick up lines ever…which is why it’s been used so often.

And it’s why we need to come up with more original lines now.

But if we use it as a template we can see what

the do's and don'ts of how to start a

conversation with a woman are.

- DO ask her question, DON'T just make a statement.

You're much more likely to get her talking to you if you ask her something like 'Do you like this place?' than if you say to her 'I like this place'.

It shows her that you're interested in her, that you want her to talk to you and it makes it easy for her to think of a reply.

And most women are too polite to ignore a direct question!

- DON'T make any sexual references…if you really want to take things further with her! It is very, very unusual for a woman to respond positively if the first thing that comes out of your mouth is something like " What's your favourite sexual position?"!!



- DO come across as calm and confident. If you're nervous she'll pick up on that and it'll make her nervous too…which means she'll probably want to get away from you asap!

- DON'T make any references to her physical appearance. If you ask her something like "Do you know you have the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen?" all she can really say is 'yes', 'no' or 'thank you'….this doesn't really get a conversation going and you'll just have to think up another line!

- DO keep things natural and relevant to the situation. DON'T make it seem like you're just using a line you always use. If you spot a girl you like while you're grocery shopping why not ask her something like 'Hi! Do you know the best way to cook pasta?" Because this is a natural question and it doesn't seem like a pick up line she won't become defensive. And most women love to be helpful!

- DON'T be cheesy. Lines like 'I've been waiting for you all my life' won't work because she'll just think that you're creepy, insincere or desperate!

- DO practise starting conversations with strangers, both women and men. The more you do it, the better you'll become!

Need more help?

Well here are some suggestions of some of the best pick up lines to use…adapt them to suit you and try them out for size!

These might not seem very exciting but they WILL work!

- Great weather/music/food, isn't it?

- Where are you from?

- Hi I'm lost…do you know the way to the station/ restaurant/ bar?

- What's the best place around here to have a drink /eat / see a movie?

- Where did you learn to dance like that?

- Do you like this place/ have you been here before?

- Do you like this type of music?

- Did you see where my friends went?

- What's your favourite drink?

You get the idea!

And once you've got her attention with your first question just carry on chatting naturally to her!

If you're a bit unsure about how to do this then take a look at our page on first date conversation.

Now you know what the best pick up lines are why not read our articles on where to meet women, how to pick up girls and how to attract women?

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