Dating Married Women

A Guide To The Thrills & the Risks

Dating married women seems to be a growing trend.

In the last few years specialised websites like IllicitEncounters.com have been set up to cater for the demand.

So why would a guy date a married women?

The number one reason for most men is that dating married women seems to offer the opportunity for a sexual encounter...

without it leading to a committed relationship.

This is the 'fun without attachment' scenario.

It's also pretty likely that a married woman is going to be experienced, not just sexually, but also emotionally.

And the excitement of having an affair with a woman is a thrill that a lot of men enjoy…will you or won't you get caught out?

But there are also many downsides to dating a woman who's already attached.

For a start, she will almost always put her family commitments before the affair.

This means that you won't be calling the shots about how, where or when you're going to meet up – unless she starts to develop feelings for you…

A lot of women who have a sexual relationship with a man do start to develop feelings for him, even if they didn't intend to.

Or the guy falls in love with her.

So what starts out as fun can quickly become a complicated and emotionally messy situation.

This is especially true if she has children.

And if you do get found out (which happens in a lot of cases) being confronted by an angry husband is a real possibility.

It could mean that you end up dating a single parent and not a married woman. Or the turmoil could end your relationship completely.

Most women are only unfaithful if they feel neglected, emotionally or sexually.

So this could mean that she has a lot of deep-seated issues that she hasn't dealt with.

It's also important to remember that for some women having an affair is a way to try and stay in an unhappy marriage.

Either she's unable to or doesn't want to face the difficulties involved in separating from her husband.

And for many (but not all) women, the only way they can find the courage to leave their husband is for another man…so an affair becomes a way to end the marriage.

Dating married women can work out and many guys happily do it, either casually or by developing committed relationships with them.

But being realistic is the key to success – it is more complicated than dating a single woman and it involves carefully weighing the upsides against the risks.

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