Flirting Tips

Attract People To YOU!

Our flirting tips will show you that flirting is easy! Really!

Anyone can be a successful flirter...

... and you probably naturally flirt every day without even knowing it.

Because flirting is a basic, human instinct that both men and women have.

Being skilful at flirting is really important because it's a way of showing someone that you're interested in him or her in a romantic or sexual way.

They'll subconsciously pick up on the signs you're giving out and react to them (hopefully positively!).

And because great flirting is so subtle it means that if the other person isn't interested in you it saves you a lot of embarrassment!

One of the best things about flirting is that even if you're in a long-term realtionship its fun to flirt with your partner...it shows you still like like him or her.

Its like a little flame that can keep the relationship sizzling!

So what is the best way to become a great flirter?

You'll need to use a combination of verbal and non-verbal flirting tips to flirt really well.

NON-VERBAL FLIRTING TIPS

Your body language is really important when you're flirting because it sends out all sorts of messages to the person you're attracted to.

- Eye contact is a really good way to show someone you like them before you've even met!

The 'eyes across a crowded room' thing really works. If you look at someone for longer than one second then you're showing them that you've noticed them.

If you look away and then gaze at them several more times they should get the message that you're attracted to them! Winking and raising an eyebrow are also easy ways to flirt.

- Your body gestures are really important flirting tools.

For a guy, making yourself look as manly as possible is really effective…stand as tall as you can with your chest out to appear as powerful as possible.

For you girls, emphasise your femininity by playing with your hair, tilting your head, batting your eyelids and crossing and uncrossing your legs.

And for both of you keep your body language friendly and open….make sure your body is turned towards the other person and use your hands when you talk to show that you find being with them an animating experience!

- Stand or sit closer to the other person than you normally would with someone who is just a friend. This shows them that you're happy with physical intimacy.

- While you're talking to the person you're attracted to touch them casually to show your interest.

Start with brief, light touches on the arm to be safe and only move on to touching their hands and knees when you're absolutely certain that they like you.

But be careful, don't blow it by taking it to extremes…groping is not flirting!

- Mirror the body language of the person you're flirting with because this suggests harmony and compatibility between the two of you!

- Smiling is a really powerful flirting tool because it shows straightaway that you like someone.

Make sure your smile is genuine to have the best effect, everyone can spot a 'faker'!.

VERBAL FLIRTING TIPS

What you say and how you say it is just as important as your body language

- When you first approach someone show him or her that you want to talk to them by casually asking a question.

If you're a bit unsure about what a great opening line is then take a look at our page on best pick up lines for help.

- Great flirting means showing the other person you like them by telling them about yourself and listening to what they're saying to you.

Our guide on first date conversation will give you more clues about the best way to talk to someone you want to get to know better.

- Be humorous (without turning into a clown!) to show the person you like that you want them to be happy and entertained.

Teasing them in a light-hearted way also works. Everyone loves laughing and if you're laughing together it creates a great atmosphere between you both.

Use these flirting tips to improve your flirting skills and make sure that you're sending out the right signals to the right people.

Maybe that guy you like hasn't asked you for a date because he doesn't think you're interested in him??!!

And now you know what the signs of flirting are you'll be able to tell when someone really is attracted to you too!

Keep on practising the techniques and you'll just get better and better until you're a natural.

You can pretty much practise flirting anywhere with anyone. A lot of flirting is just harmless fun and doesn't lead to anything serious.

A bit of advice, though, about who to flirt with…if the other person is in a relationship their partner might or might not see it as just a bit of fun!

And be prepared that the person who you flirt with might be more serious than you are about taking things further.

So now you know what great flirting tips are go out and enjoy yourself! Because flirting, when done at its best, should be a fun experience for both you and the person you're flirting with!(And when its time to back off). No more guesswork!

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