How To Attract Men …

And Keep Them

Learning how to attract men is easy! Honestly!

Every man is different and looks for different things in a woman based on his personal preferences, age and culture.

This is great news for women...

...because it means that there's no absolute 'perfect' or 'ideal' woman.

Just a perfect woman for him…and, for some man, that perfect woman is you!

But there are some general things that apply to most men - what order they come in depends on the man.

So read the following list and learn how to attract men.

Physical Appearance

Men are very physical by nature and what you look like is the first thing they notice about you…being attractive is top of the list on how to attract men.

They're genetically programmed to seek out feminine women with sex appeal.

So they'll check out the symmetry of your face, your breasts and your hip:waist ratio to assess your suitability as a healthy 'mate'…and they don't even know why they're doing it!

Don't worry , this really doesn't mean that you have to look like a supermodel. Fortunately, most men are not as critical about women as women are about themselves…or other women are about them.

In fact, most men haven't heard about cellulite and they can't understand how your backside could look 'too big' in anything! And the 'girl-next-door' look is very appealing to a man because it's attractive without being intimidating.

Every woman is beautiful in her own way…it's just about taking care of your appearance and making the most of your best features without getting obsessed about what you look like.

We've all seen (non-extreme) make-over shows where the results seem to be miraculous and its down to flattering hairstyles, make-up and clothes.

So...

Personality

This is number two on the list of how to attract men. Now he's noticed your outer beauty it's time for your inner beauty to shine!

Given the choice of two (or more!) attractive women a man will always choose the woman with the more sparkling personality.

Men really do like women who are interesting, funny and intelligent. Because they know that, if things go well, they'll be spending a lot of time in your company.

So make your conversation interesting - talk about your job, hobbies, interests, likes, dislikes and aspirations. If you're not confident about this then take a look at our dating conversation page for further help.

And, honestly, try not to moan or bitch…this is definitely not how to attract men, they don't like it and they don't understand why so many women do it.

So be positive, be yourself and show him the very best of who you are.

Show him you're interested in him

This might sound obvious but it's easy to forget.

A man will love it if you make it clear that you like him.

A really easy way to do this is to flirt with him...

...there are lots of ways to do this and its fun!

If you're unsure how to flirt then read our page on flirting tips for help.

Or why not approach him? Men love this!!!

It'll take him by surprise, he'll be very flattered and he'll like your confident attitude.

And once you're chatting don't just talk about yourself…ask him questions about himself. It shows him that you like him and you'll get to know him better that way.

Of course, your interest in him should be balanced. Don't go to extremes because he'll think that you're desperate and needy. Scaring them is not how to attract men!

Laughter

Every man likes to see a beautiful smile.

It shows him that you're fun, relaxed and that have a good sense of humour. It's even better if you're laughing at his jokes (but not at HIM of course!) because he'll be very flattered. And it will create a special spark between the two of you.

Smell Nice

It's no accident that the perfume industry is such big business – men really do love smelling a woman's delicate fragrance! So spray it on…but be careful not to mask those pheromones!

Be confident

Hopefully, if you've followed the other advice on how to attract men this bit should come naturally to you.

Men like women who know who they are and like who they are (without being arrogant) because it means that you're much less likely to be needy.

If you're still lacking a little confidence try saying some affirmations to yourself. Stand in front of the mirror every day and tell yourself positive things about you like 'I am a clever, beautiful woman and a I have lot of great qualities that make me special'.

You can get more specific, for example, 'I have beautiful eyes' or 'I have a kind heart'. Affirmations really do work…think positive and you'll be positive.

Watch this affirmations video for more examples of affirmations.

So now you're an expert on how to attract men go out and wow those lucky guys!

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