How To Be A Player?

Always Be Successful With Women

Knowing how to be a player is a skill that any man can learn.

Most men go through a phase of wanting to be a player and it's a natural desire for a man to have at some point in his life.

The definition of a player is a man who has sex with a lot of women without becoming emotionally involved with any of them…

...and without becoming involved in a committed relationship.

This part is really easy.

If you know where to meet women then you'll have taken your first step to being a player.

The second step is knowing how to pick up women…get this right and being a player will become second nature.

If you're a little unsure about your pick up techniques then our guide on how to pick up women will be a big help.

The third step in knowing how to be a player is to know how to do it successfully.

This is the difficult part.

Being successful doesn't just mean how many women you can pick up.

It also means being able to seduce a woman without it leading to a relationship…and without her being hurt in the process.

There's nothing wrong with being a player, it just takes time, practise and experience to know how to be a player that both men and women like.

Great players really like women, they have a positive attitude towards them and enjoy spending time with them. Think of Casanova and Don Juan.

These guys are probably the ultimate players...

...they were able to have casual affairs with many women but were still admired by these women (and other women and men!) after the liaisons were over.

The reason for this is that the women involved didn't get their feelings hurt.

Most women don't want to feel that you're the player and that they're just a game to you.

So to avoid this happening follow the guidelines below to keep both of you happy...

- Don't lie about your intentions…so don't tell a woman that you're looking for a relationship if you really don't want anything other than a casual affair.

If she asks you, then be honest with her…because that way you're giving her a choice in the matter.

- Respect the women you meet before, during and after your encounters with them.

Have a positive attitude about them and remember that their open-mindedness plays a big part in fulfilling your desires.

- Always use a condom. This is really important to protect you both from STD's and from her becoming pregnant.

Your career as a player will really backfire on you if you don't remember this.

- Remember that women develop feelings a lot quicker than men and they're a lot less able to separate physical and emotional feelings.

So if you have sex with the same woman over a long period of time, be aware that it's very likely that she'll start to get feelings for you...

…even if you've always been really clear about your intentions.

She might even secretly think that she'll be the one to change you.

This isn't anyone's fault…most women have come across men who tell them that they don't want commitment and then these guys change their minds.

The only way to avoid this happening to you and to her is to limit your meetings with any one woman.

This isn't meant in a judgmental way...

...it's just that to make sure you stay happy in the short-term and the long-term, you probably don't want any emotional scenes with any of the women you've met.

So enjoy learning how to be a player, get out there and have fun!

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