How to Pick Up Girls

Five Steps To Success

Learning how to pick up girls is like learning a scientific formula. Get it right and you'll always be successful with women.

So let's imagine that you've seen a beautiful girl you like. What are you going to do?

Below are the basic steps you should take. For more detailed information, including techniques and strategies, click here.

Step one is to know how to attract women. If you know what a woman likes in a man this will make your dating life so much easier. Okay this sounds obvious but it's worth making the point.

Step two is knowing how to approach her for the first time. If you don't know how to do this you'll make things much harder for yourself...her first impression of interacting with you is really important.

Our article on how to approach women is full of useful information.

So you've attracted her and you've approached her. Onto step three...knowing how to keep the conversation flowing freely with her. Women love talking! And most men find making small talk difficult.

If you can get good at making conversation, then you'll be way ahead of the game and women will love you for it! Our article on first date conversation will really help you out.

Step four of how to pick up girls is to flirt with her...let her know that you like her. Women love attention and flirting is fun! Flirt well and your pick up skills will definitely improve!

Our article on flirting tips will tell you all you need to know to get really good at flirting.

Step five, is the final step in picking up women. This is where you ask for her number, you ask her for a date or you ask her back to your place.

If you've followed the first four steps this bit should be easy!

The key is to make the suggestion naturally. Don't feel shy or embarrassed, there's nothing wrong in wanting further contact with her. So look her in the eye and be straightforward with your question. Ask her something like 'Do you fancy going for a drink sometime?'

Sometimes she'll say yes and sometimes she'll say no...it's important to remember that you won't be able to pick up every woman you want to.

Don't take it personally, it doesn't mean that you've done anything wrong - maybe the chemistry isn't there, maybe she has a partner or maybe she doesn't want to get involved with anyone.

The guys who are the most successful at picking up women know this and they're able to deal with the knock-backs. And they don't let it have an effect on their confidence. Honestly, EVERY guy has been turned down at some point...even if he doesn't admit it!

Take any knock-backs graciously...definitely don't become aggressive or abusive...instead, have a positive attitude and see that it was an opportunity to practise your pick up techniques.

And very soon you'll be an expert on how to pick up girls!

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