Kissing Tips To Get You Both Excited!

Our kissing tips will show you that kissing is a really natural and enjoyable way to get to know someone.

And it has a biological purpose too! It's a way of two people exchanging pheromones to see how attracted they are to each other. Even animals like dogs, cats and birds do it!

So being able to kiss well is really important when you want to be desirable to another person!

Following our kissing tips will help you to maximise your attraction potential!

- Make sure your breath smells appealing! This is one of the most vital kissing tips because no one will want to kiss someone with bad breath.

So make sure you've cleaned your teeth before going on a date, stay away from strong foods like garlic and raw onions and take some chewing gum out with you in case of emergencies.

- Make your lips kissable. Appealing lips are soft and moist, not hard and chapped. So be ready for any kissing action by regularly moisturising your lips to keep them in tip-top condition.

- Being clean-shaven means that she doesn't get stubble rash! If you do have stubble, try and be considerate while you're kissing.

Picking Up on Kissing Signals

So you're with someone you want to kiss but you don't know if they feel the same way.

One of the best ways to find out is to see whether they're flirting with you…most people give out signals if they're attracted to someone, it's just a case of spotting them. Our guide on flirting tips will help you out on this one.

It's normally pretty obvious when someone is ready for a kiss, it might just take you a little practice to get to know the signs.

If you're in any doubt, don't try kissing the other person because you may both end up feeling uncomfortable. And if you do go in for a kiss and the other person makes it clear that it's not what they want, then back off graciously.

Great kissing tips understand that there are times when you won't be kissing at all.

It might be because the person you like doesn't want a romantic or sexual encounter with you, or that he or she isn't ready for kissing yet… or that they don't feel comfortable with the surroundings…

Choosing Where To Kiss

You can pretty much kiss anywhere that you both feel comfortable. If both of you are relaxed in your surroundings you'll enjoy kissing each other much more than if one of you is feeling inhibited.

Not everyone is an exhibitionist and some people feel awkward kissing in a public place or in front of anyone else. Which is why dark cinemas/movie theaters are traditionally so popular!

And remember kissing is fine in most public places (although some Middle and Far Eastern countries outlaw this) but if you get over-enthusiastic and become more intimate, then you may place yourself in an inappropriate situation.

Moving In For A Kiss

Create anticipation to make your kiss exciting! You can do this in the following ways:

- Kiss your date on the hand or cheek first so that you both have the thrill of skin to skin contact.

- Look intensely and alluringly into your kissing partner's eyes.

- Lick your lips to send a subconscious signal to your date that you want to kiss him or her.

- Start to move your head slowly towards them at an angle, maintaining eye contact all the time. Most people naturally tilt their heads towards the right as they go in for a kiss…this will help you to avoid collisions!

General Kissing Tips Techniques

- As your mouth meets the mouth of your partner close your eyes and relax into the kiss.

- Start slowly and gently and try your best to make your mouth relaxed so that it's soft and pliable. This will make the kiss much more enjoyable for you both.

- As your kiss progresses you can start varying the pace of the kissing. Try kissing faster and more passionately and then slow the kiss down again. This will make the kiss more interesting than just keeping to the same rhythm!

- Try gently chewing your kissing partner's lips to arouse him or her further.

- Your mouth doesn't have to be the only part of the body you use when you kiss someone. The best kisses involve your hands as well…use them to hug your kissing partner, to touch him or her gently on the neck and face and to run your fingers through their hair.

- Experiment with using your tongue on your date's lips and then if you feel comfortable with this, try some French kissing…

French Kissing Tips

The main thing to remember about French kissing is that not everyone is comfortable with it. It's a very intimate form of kissing so don't feel pressurized to French kiss…and don't put pressure on someone else to French kiss either.

If you do want to French kiss, then that's great because tongues are very sensitive to touch! Follow the tips below for success…

- So start gently, making sure your tongue is soft and relaxed. Slowly try putting your tongue into your date's mouth. If the signals are positive, then carry on. If not, then draw your tongue back again.

- If you both want to continue then gently rub your partner's tongue with yours. Then move onto exploring the inside of their mouth with your tongue for maximum pleasure.

- Take it in turns to explore each other's mouths and vary the intensity and pattern of your tongue movements.

- Remember to breathe through your nose…if you breathe through your mouth you'll end up with a sucking effect!

It's really easy to forget to breathe at all in the height of passion but try to remember because you'll want to keep your kiss as long as possible!

If kissing someone on the mouth leads to kissing them on the neck and other parts of the body, the same advice applies. Basically, start slowly and gently…and make sure it's what you both want.

So use our kissing tips to really enjoy your kissing experiences. Everyone kisses in a different way and likes different types of kissing…so learn the basics, practice them and adapt them to suit the situation.

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